Okay, I am going to try this question again… Nicole Kidman asked Russell Crowe in an interview before the Oscars, a very pointed question… and since I am really interested to know your responses, please let me know:
What would you rather: To LOVE or to BE LOVED?
Or more specifically:
What are you better at: LOVING or BEING LOVED?
3 March 07 -- Saturday at 6:53 am
Good question. I am better at loving. Primarily b/c I know that when I love there is nothing attached to it – no strings or expectations.
However, to receive love, I wonder, ‘ what is this persons motive’ or ‘Am I really good enough, did I measure up?’ or ‘what did I do right? I could explain more fully but then this is a blog comment not an english paper!
4 March 07 -- Sunday at 6:00 pm
Kate, this is a hard question……
I may be wrong about myself but at this moment this is how I feel; tomorrow may be a different story.
I think I would rather be loved because it is an amazing feeling! BUT…I think I am better at loving rather than being loved. I’m not sure if I am full of it or this even makes sense but there you go. ha